Thursday, October 28, 2010

“When love in a relationship isn’t enough”

How do we know when someone says they love us isn’t enough. To work, love relationships need to be approached with the right perspective from the beginning?

A person cannot offer you something he or she does not have to offer you. Eternal love can be found only within a man or a woman who has it in them to offer. When two people belong with one another, they will have this love to offer each other.
There is love in everyone. Some relationships aren’t meant to be in love or married relationships. Even though u feel you love someone and will go crazy without them.
Sometimes, it’s a love built from friendship, and that’s all one can see in the relationship.
I imagine you are thinking what does this have to do with God? It has a lot to do with God. All relationships have to start with God first, without Him, you are setting yourself up for a failed relationship. One should pray over the other person and ask for Gods will in this relationship, then take each day as it comes.
2 Corinthians 6:14 (King James Version) 14 be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion hath light with darkness?
Did you know the bible is a book about relationships from beginning to end? God wants two people to be together, why do you think He created Eve? He created the perfect match for Adam, and He will do the same for you, if you are patient and allow Him to.
"The Father loves the Son, and has given all things into His hand . . . For the Father loves the Son, and shows Him all things that He Himself does . . ." (John 3:35; 5:20).
My first relationship belongs to God, He comes first in my life and always will, and then there will be time for others, including family. God creates only good reunions. We sometimes get hurried in our lives and choose the wrong person, and then blame God. We start feeling sorry for ourselves, which leads us into the arms of another wrong person. The love in a relationship is and always will be wrong if God doesn’t come first.


There are numerous relationship verses from the Bible, below are just a few: [Let] nothing [be done] through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves. Philippians 2:3


Matthew 5:16 (King James Version) 16Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.


Proverbs 16:18 (King James Version) 18Pride goeth before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall.


Life isn’t perfect, we lose loved ones everyday, to death, other women or men, but we have to pick our heads up and know that God knows the answers, its all about Trusting Him my friends. Let Him choose your mate, or best friend, call our His name, and ask for His guidance.


God bless you my friends.





2 comments:

  1. Hey Brenda this is so true hon God Bless you my friend

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  2. Hey there Brenda this so awesome and true i know i been there few times too and i got help God Bless you hon

    HBS

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